Grief Recovery Resources
Many of the resources shared below were created by my friend and fellow Healing Mom, Jenny Robbins and another student, Jamee Leichtle for a class at Regis University. Thanks go Jenny and Jamee for sharing these resources with me to add to the website. If you are aware of other useful resources, please contact us to review them for inclusion on the website.
Resources for the Newly Bereaved
“The goal of grief is to acknowledge that a change has occurred. I feel like I am interacting with the world as a different person, looking through a different pair of eyes. Everything looks different, feels different and I respond differently to everyday interactions. There are moments where I know Matthew has died, but my heart won’t believe it. The journey of grief is helping the heart to know what the head knows. You can help. Thank you for listening…” Marguerite Ham, March 2011
The resources posted here will help the newly bereaved find words to express how others can help them during this painful time.
Grieving: How You Can Help
Written in March, 2011 by Marguerite Ham, Mother of Matthew McMasters
what I wish other people understood about losing a child
Written by Paula Stephens, Crazy Good Grief, Updated February 13, 2020
Grief Groceries
Written by Hugh Hollowell, Jr. Posted on FaceBook May 26, 2022
National Organizations (with Local Chapters)
The Compassionate Friends – Support for families after a child dies. compassionatefriends.org
Spark of Life – Free healing grief retreats for those who have experienced loss. sparkoflife.org.
MISS Foundation – Providing C.A.R.E. (counseling, advocacy, research, and education) services to families experiencing the death of a child. missfoundation.org.
Dr. Joanne Cacciatore from MISS Foundation has also recently published a wonderful book, Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief (focused on loss of a child).
Denver Area Resources
HeartLight Center – Center for grief support and education. Various groups and topics. (720) 748-9908 or heartlightcenter.org.
Denver Hospice – Support group for children, teens, and adults. (303) 321-2828.
Judi’s House – Peer groups for children ages 3-25 grieving the death of a loved one. Increases awareness and knowledge of grieving children’s needs with support and understanding. (720) 941-0331 or judishouse.org.
The Grief Journey – Bereavement care of all types including support groups and individual counseling.
Contact Linda Coughlin Brooks at (303) 951-9240, griefandgrowth.com.
Parents of Murdered Children – For the families and friends of those who have died by violence. Meets 3rd Saturday of each month, 7:30 pm, Century Link Building, 52nd & Zuni, Denver, CO. colorado-pomc.org or call Phil Clark at (303) 748-6395.
Trauma Informed Yoga – Private and group sessions. Sara Moser (Boulder, CO)
Candlelight Counseling – Janet Buntrock, MA, LPC, FT (Littleton, CO)
janetbuntrockcandlelightcounseling.com
Crazy Good Grief – Connection and inspiration for those healing the loss of a loved one (Lakewood, CO) crazygoodgrief.com.
Jenny & Jamee’s Presentation
The Impact of Grief, Loss, and Death on Individual and Family Development
Resources Specific to Loss by Suicide
HeartBeat: Grief Support Following Suicide
http://www.heartbeatsurvivorsaftersuicide.org/
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
Second Wind Fund (Matches at-risk children (up to age 18) with therapists in their community)
http://www.thesecondwindfund.org/
Website Resources
Refuge in Grief
https://www.refugeingrief.com/
What’s Your Grief?
Wise Old Sayings: Guide to Grieving Support Resources
http://www.wiseoldsayings.com/grieving-support-guide/
A Guide to Grief: Stages of Grief, Coping Tips, Sympathy Flowers & More
https://www.avasflowers.net/a-guide-to-grief-stages-of-grief-coping-tips-sympathy-flowers-and
Robert Neimeyer, PhD
Association for Death Education and Counseling
The Dougy Center – National Center for Grieving Children and Families
www.dougy.org
National Allegiance for Grieving Children
American Gold Star Mothers
Mothers who have lost a child in the service of our country
Relationship Between Sleep and Grief
Addresses Sleep Issues Associated with Grief
https://www.mattressclarity.com/blog/grief-and-sleep/
Sleep Help
Addresses Sleep Issues Associated with Grief
https://www.sleephelp.org/grief-and-sleep/